Going Outside Your Style Comfort Zone Can Be Inspiring

Personal style is such a fun thing, and the options are endless on how you'd like to characterize your own style. While it's super important for some to have a focus when it comes to their style, that's not the case for me. Stepping outside your comfort zone when it comes to style can be so inspiring | The Blonder Life

Personal style is such a fun thing, and the options are endless on how you’d like to characterize your own style. While it’s super important for some to have a focus when it comes to their style, that’s not the case for me.

I touched on my thoughts in this post but wanted to expand a bit today!

Personal style is such a fun thing, and the options are endless on how you'd like to characterize your own style. While it's super important for some to have a focus when it comes to their style, that's not the case for me. Stepping outside your comfort zone when it comes to style can be so inspiring | The Blonder Life

Personal style is such a fun thing, and the options are endless on how you'd like to characterize your own style. While it's super important for some to have a focus when it comes to their style, that's not the case for me. Stepping outside your comfort zone when it comes to style can be so inspiring | The Blonder Life

Personal style is such a fun thing, and the options are endless on how you'd like to characterize your own style. While it's super important for some to have a focus when it comes to their style, that's not the case for me. Stepping outside your comfort zone when it comes to style can be so inspiring | The Blonder Life

Personal style is such a fun thing, and the options are endless on how you'd like to characterize your own style. While it's super important for some to have a focus when it comes to their style, that's not the case for me. Stepping outside your comfort zone when it comes to style can be so inspiring | The Blonder Life

Personal style is such a fun thing, and the options are endless on how you'd like to characterize your own style. While it's super important for some to have a focus when it comes to their style, that's not the case for me. Stepping outside your comfort zone when it comes to style can be so inspiring | The Blonder Life

Personal style is such a fun thing, and the options are endless on how you'd like to characterize your own style. While it's super important for some to have a focus when it comes to their style, that's not the case for me. Stepping outside your comfort zone when it comes to style can be so inspiring | The Blonder Life

High Low Cuffed Shirt (c/o) || Denim skirt (sold out but similar linked) || Mules || Sunglasses

In middle and high school I was never the fashionista, far from it actually. It’s funny, because my best friend was always known for her style and actually got voted “Best Dressed” of the senior class! But, I stuck to jeans and really anything that was safe. I was extremely shy and didn’t want to wear anything that might get me noticed or draw any attention to myself. Funny right? Now, I have a whole website dedicated to my style and basically asking to get noticed.

But with that being said, once I graduated and was in college I started being more interested in my style and made it a mission to wear things I loved and forget the rest. I started having friends look to me to style them, and I actually loved the attention of people liking my style. I especially loved when I could give my friend’s style advice and point them to pieces that stayed within their college budget!

When I started focusing more on fashion on The Blonder Life I knew I needed a focus and to find a certain style. But honestly, it was hard for me. Most fashion bloggers have that certain look about them and all their posts. They have a style that is cohesive throughout their brand. I was desperate for that, and finally wound up categorizing myself as casual but still wasn’t really a style.

I started shopping for pieces that were normally outside of my realm to try to find one specific style.
If my budget allowed for it I would solely shop at Urban and Free People, but for now, my post-grad budget doesn’t allow for that… here’s to dreaming.

I started finding pieces that I wouldn’t have typically worn and just buying them without truly thinking. Something about it was so inspiring! While scrolling online one day I found this High Low Cuffed Top and immediately fell in love. It’s the perfect work top, but also is so cute styled for after the clock! It is the comfiest material too, and I love how high-quality it looks, but the price tag is totally affordable ($12!) I finally retired my need to categorize my syle, and have been trying to shop outside my “style comfort zone” it really is the greatest thing to wake up your style!

Next time you’re shopping I challenge you to pick up something that isn’t 100% you. Whether it’s adding a little color into your wardrobe, or even trying a trend! Just do it.

Do you stick to a typical style, or look? What do you categorize your style as?

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21 Comments

  1. June 13, 2017 / 10:56 am

    OK this whole look is ADORABLE! I lovelovelove every single piece. And I LOVE going outside my style comfort zone. I dress for my mood and LOVE mixing it up everyday!

    Coming Up Roses

  2. June 7, 2017 / 9:26 am

    I like to step outside my comfort zone every now & then too, mix things up. And absolutely loving these mules!!

    xo, Kristina

    • Jamie
      Author
      June 10, 2017 / 11:28 am

      Aren’t they the cutest? I wear them way too frequently, haha.
      Changing up our personal style is so important I think!

  3. Hannah Stark
    June 7, 2017 / 8:36 am

    So beautiful as always! I really need to try out the denim skirt trend this summer!

    xoxo, Hannah

    • Jamie
      Author
      June 10, 2017 / 11:29 am

      You totally do! Such a summer staple!

  4. June 6, 2017 / 9:02 am

    I love not having a particular style! It’s way more fun that way for me haha! I change up my style day-to-day … one afternoon I’m totally boho and ready for the beach, and the next day it’s all about street style. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to stay within one category, but I do know that I love everything you wear. This top is so cute and so affordable! I love the stripes!

    • Jamie
      Author
      June 10, 2017 / 11:29 am

      Totally agree! Mine is always changing, and I love that!

  5. Kelsey H
    June 5, 2017 / 4:33 pm

    OH my gosh I love this jean skirt! The cut in the front is so fun! xo

    • Jamie
      Author
      June 5, 2017 / 11:04 pm

      It has definitely been a crowd favorite, and a closet staple!

    • Jamie
      Author
      June 5, 2017 / 11:05 pm

      I doubt that Morgan!
      But thanks for reading xx

  6. Sara
    June 5, 2017 / 2:49 pm

    I’m a firm believer in stepping outside your fashion box! Loved this post and I really love that denim skirt!

    xo, Sara

    • Jamie
      Author
      June 5, 2017 / 11:05 pm

      Such a necessity now and then to really spice up my closet!

      And love this skirt – has quickly become a closet staple!

  7. June 5, 2017 / 2:16 pm

    This is such great advice!! going outside your comfort zone always pays off and feels good! and I SO love your hair and your shirt!

    Maggie @ Polished Closets

    • Jamie
      Author
      June 5, 2017 / 11:06 pm

      Thank you Maggie, so sweet! It’s fun to change up our style now & then!

  8. Tiffani at Breton Bay
    June 5, 2017 / 11:31 am

    Such great advice!! Fashion is a place in our lives where we can go outside of our comfort zone and it’s OK!! Sometimes you’ll be so happy you did and other times you may just shake your head and think “what was I thinking?!?!” but props to us for going outside of the box!!

    xoxo
    Tiffani
    http://www.tiffaniatbretonbay.com

    • Jamie
      Author
      June 5, 2017 / 11:06 pm

      Definitely agree! Sometimes I look back at photos thinking the same thing, but then other times am patting myself on the back – lol.

      Thanks for reading Tiffani!

  9. Ashley Hargrove
    June 5, 2017 / 8:56 am

    That denim skirt looks so good on you!! I am still searching for the right one and LOVE this one!!

    • Jamie
      Author
      June 5, 2017 / 9:05 am

      I love the fit of this one, and so comfy! It sold out pretty fast from Nordstrom but I linked a similar one!

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